FROM "GAME OF THRONES" TO "GAME OF LIFE"

DISCLAIMER: Proceed with caution. Spoiler ahead for Game of Thrones (Non-GOT fans can read the other articles in the blog 😊).

“Winter is Coming” and “Valar Morghulis” (All men must die) were on the minds of all Game of Thrones fans throughout the series.

GOT fans were curious to know “Who will sit of the Iron Throne and rule seven kingdoms?” This had become a big question for quite some time similar to the national question in India some time ago - “Kattapa Ne Bahubali ko kyun mara?” I personally felt that this series was very much relatable to the modern-day politics. What do you think?

After all the political conspiracies, strategic decisions, and murders in Game of Thrones series, the adaption of fantasy novel named ‘The Song Of Ice And Fire’, has come to an end after eight seasons. Many were disappointed with the climax of the series; however, the journey was astounding with a lot of twists and turns. Many had played the Game of Thrones, and most have met ignominious ends (Ned Stark, Robb Stark, Stannis Baratheon, Margaery Tyrell). Throughout, I have wondered who will survive until the end as, according to me, this itself is a big victory. It was humorously warned that we must not get too attached to any character due to a shocking (and yet entertaining) plot. But every character’s journey has a unique impact on our real lives too, except for the magic and dragons in the fictional world.

Let us go back to the fantasy world through this blog and unravel the valuable and relatable lessons taught by some of the characters from Game of Throne series.

The overall message was YOLO (You Only Live Once). The show teaches you to live every single moment of your life because you never know what is going to happen. Isn’t this the Game of Life?

1. DAENERYS TARGARYEN

Her journey from an anxious girl to a valiant leader is astonishing. She depicts very gracefully that the real leadership lies in serving the people who follow you and so she not only conquers the lands but also win the hearts of people by being fair and just to them. Her character illuminates within us the importance of having faith, determination, strength, and confidence to achieve our aspirations. She teaches us that “Tough experiences are the best teachers.” Another most important take away from her character is that one should surround themselves with intelligent and experienced advisors and listen to them before making tough decisions. But Power can create an illusion in your eyes sometimes. In this state, a person may take harsh and wrong choices that lead to the beginning of the end.

2. ARYA STARK

She is a perfect epitome of a fanatic learner. She inspires us to be fierce, adamant, and acrimonious (When it comes to the life of people you love most or family). Being one of the most liked characters on the show, she enlightens us by believing that “A bruise is a lesson, and each lesson makes us stronger.” She sticks to the promise that she makes to herself to avenge the death of her dear ones and reminds herself of her destination and learn all the skills needed for the same. Even though her family does not have any female warrior, she goes on to follow her heart to be one. She teaches us, “You can become whatever you want if you try hard enough.”

3. NED STARK

All of us admire Ned Stark as he was a devoted father, a perfect gentleman, and an honorable lord who values morality and ethical behavior. The most important thing this character teaches us is leading is much more complicated than having the honor and a good heart, and a good leader is not merely someone who isn't willing to be cruel.

His character also reminds us that honor is the toughest thing to own as straight trees are cut first. But this is one of the few things that will keep your memory alive in the world forever and remember you like the best ruler the world has ever seen. But don’t be too idealistic because you cannot survive on honor and heroism alone in the present world. The most significant lesson learnt is, “Never let your enemy know what you are up to” and “You must be smart enough to know your way around the world.” Even if your intentions are reasonable, you need to know how to outwit the world. 

4. JON SNOW

Jon Snow – or we must say Aegon Targaryen - gradually accentuated from bastard to Lord Commander of the Night’s Watch to King in the North to a contender of the Iron Throne. We can learn from him that “Bravery Wins You Admiration, Kindness Earns You Respect and Friends.” He is a highly capable swordsman and thinker with a knack for piercing observations (and the only person who does not belong to YOLO category 😉). Doing the right thing for everyone at the cost of personal loss takes a big heart. Always being able to see what could be right for the welfare of the people is the qualities of a true king. But Leadership Is More Complicated Than Being A Hero. It's important to understand what people want. He is a man of his word who always keeps his promises. His loyalty and integrity are traits that we should all strive to possess.

5. SANSA STARK

Sansa Stark’s journey is impressive as she transforms from a young, naïve girl to a strong and confident woman and then the lady of Winterfell. She perfectly depicts “Slow and steady, wins the race” is a life mantra as she is known to be a slow learner. She is a self-preservationist who adapts well to her surroundings and believes that “Adaptability is the key to survival.” This character also implies that you can endure more than you think you can. A person must have patience and rise after every fall to learn life lessons. On the other hand, you must be strong enough and courageous to fight against the atrocities in your life. Her character teaches us, “When life gets tough, you get tougher.”

6. BRAN STARK

Bran is an enthusiastic child and fascinated by stories adventure. But when he was paralyzed, he had to reconsider his options in his life and find the purpose of his vision.

His character teaches us, “You can overcome your (physical) disability and achieve greatness.” When life takes away something from you, it gives you something else. Listen to your inner voice because the power lies within you, but you must discover it.

7. TYRION LANNISTER

One of the most loved characters on ‘Game Of Thrones’, Tyrion is an astute, witty, and intelligent dwarf. His character teaches to “Keep Your Wits by Your Side.” His well-known dialogue is, “Never forget what you are; the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you,” which implies, “Embrace your imperfections.” Despite continually being ridiculed and ill-treated, he proves that “Size isn’t everything because a small man can cast a large shadow.” The ‘imp' or half-man taught us that it doesn't matter how people see you, but what you think of yourself changes everything.

8. JAIME LANNISTER 

Jaime is arrogant, short-tempered, and rash, but he’s also a gifted swordsman and one of the handsome characters on the show. Jamie’s personality has completely changed since the beginning of the series. After his torturous experience as a prisoner of the Starks and during his journey with Brienne, he proves that even if you make mistakes, you don’t have to let them define you. Isn’t that what life comprises of? Learning from experience and becoming wiser in the process. He teaches an essential lesson that “You are not your mistakes; they help you become the best version of yourself.”

9. CERSEI LANNISTER 

She is vicious, cunning, conniving, unmerciful, smug, and extremely ambitious making her a complex character. Being one of the best negative characters in the series, she is gorgeous and has a strategic mind. She knows how to manipulate things to suit her end. She is judicious enough not to get burnt in the fire she lit for her enemies. However, the essential teaching she imparts is, “Love your family and children unconditionally.” It does not mean you should raise Joffrey but love your children with no reservations. She was always trying to secure the throne for her children to show her love. She confesses that her children were the sole reason she was alive.

I hope that you enjoyed the ride from "Game Of Thrones" to "Game Of Life". Kindly comment whose your favorite character and the reason for the same.

Thank you for your time and please feel free to leave comments about your views and topics of your interest. You can also reach me at komalnsoftu@gmail.com

(To Be Continued......)